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I am 39 and I am not married. Since I was young, I always had the dream of getting married, being in this situation, thinking which type of husband I would like… And then when I grew up, I dated a few guys with diverse backgrounds but I couldn’t really find someone I felt comfortable with, and fitting in the kind of life I have.
As I went along, being single started to suit me better. I can do whatever I want. There are obviously times where I get lonely, where I wonder why I am not married, if there is something wrong with me. And then I say, “No Way”, there is something wrong with the guy.

Of course, I get a lot of pressure from my family and friends “What’s wrong with you?” “What are you doing?” “You miss the chance of being a mom”. They all say it’s a beautiful thing, and I envy them sometimes, but right now it feels so good to be able to do my own things and experiences.
I would rather have more life experiences than lots of material things or properties. I have a lot of traveling experience and meet friends from all over the world, they are my extended family. So even if I am not married, I feel fulfilled in my life. Blessed and contented.
Today I have someone special in my life, and perspectives have changed.

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